Buddhist Philosophy

~ December 1, 2015 ~

How To Practice – Three Key Points For Lay Practitioners

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Three Key Points For Lay Practitioners

Lay Practitioners: Competing Time Demands

We often request simple instructions for how to integrate practice with our busy modern lives. As lay practitioners, we have many demands on our time, and we can often feel frustrated or unsure of our priorities.

In this audio clip from August, 2015, Kyabgön Phakchok Rinpoche gives very direct and clear advice on this subject. Rinpoche teaches three key points to follow:

  1. Formal Sitting practice
  2. Doing something that benefits others
  3. Respecting and balancing your family life

Formal Sitting Practice

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Rinpoche explains that formal sitting practice is necessary because it keeps us from forgetting our meditation. Can we call ourselves practitioners if we do not make the time for a daily formal practice? Sitting in a formal session for even a short period of time establishes a strong habit. This is a simple instruction that we can all appreciate.

Doing Beneficial Actions

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Secondly, we can engage in “daily life practice”. Benefiting others directly in our daily activities is necessary in order for our lives to be meaningful. For example, Rinpoche often gives money to homeless people in the streets of New York City. Benefiting others like this is straightforward. We recognize a need and respond; this is meaningful activity. We witnessed many examples of lay and monastic practitioners benefiting countless beings during the 2015 Nepal earthquakes. We can also benefit beings who cannot speak for themselves by helping animals .  Rinpoche and his sangha often practice life release– saving the lives of beings that would otherwise be killed.

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Respecting and Balancing Family Life

Lastly, but very importantly, we remember our families. It is only right that we recognize and appreciate that commitment and responsibility. We should not make excuses, or avoid our obligations. Instead, we should be mindful and be sure to balance our activities so that we respect our families.

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Reflection Exercise

This week, take some time during your formal sessions and also at random times during your day to reflect on your sense of balance.  Do you sense that you are giving equal attention to each of the three practices?  Are some adjustments or corrections needed? 

If so, how will you arrange your time and priorities differently during the coming week?  What can you use as a helpful reminder in this practice?  Does a family photo in a strategic location help? 

Or, if you are lazy about sitting in formal sessions, have you tried setting a reminder chime to sit down and practice?  What works in your situation?

2 responses on "How To Practice - Three Key Points For Lay Practitioners"

  1. This “reminding” is so helpful.

  2. succinct and precise. Excellent!

    Hand palm to palm and 3 prostrations <3

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